in A, you give examples of gender specifics: “menstruation (men don’t do it), kids (men don’t make ‘em).”
in B, you want “insight into the human (genderless!) condition.”
this is a clear contradiction. the human condition can never be genderless. gender equality shouldn’t - and can’t - mean genderlessness. you don’t have to pretend there are no differences between the genders to have gender equality.